Everyone makes mistakes. Mistakes done by us can be caused by us ourselves or by third parties. Often times, we are easily led by our own self esteem and self defense to blame others around us for the mistakes we have committed.
In general, the thought of we are responsible for our own mistakes cannot be comprehended by most of us. This is normal for majority of human being, after all who wants to be blamed for any mistake, regardless of whether it is our or someone else’s mistakes?
However, having someone to blame for our mistakes does not solve the problem by itself and more often than not, it would only create more problem especially in the relationship with that person or everyone else around us.
robert said,
May 14, 2007 at 12:23 pm
yes I agree with you, admitting our mistakes does not degrade our personality but in turn builts up our well being, integrity and dignity.