Like it or not you can always see a break up coming. There are always clues. When we sense a looming break up we often retreat in to denial and this is why actually being dumped seems like such a shock. But the reality is that anybody who is willing to look can see the writing on the wall long before the relationship actually ends. It can be harsh but they hurt less if you face facts rather than hide from the truth.
Most common signs that the end is near
1 S/he is suddenly busy all the time, and never seems to have time to spend with you.
2. You find that only your fingers do any walking. If you are the only one who ever picks up the phone, especially if the phone calling used to be split pretty equally, break up bells should start ringing.
3. When you call, more often than not you are asked to leave a message.
4. S/he says s/he is one place but is really another. People do not tend to lie for no reason, if s/he is not being honest about where s/he is or who s/he is with there is rarely a noble reason for the deception.
5. You don’t seem to connect anymore.
6. Her/his friends seem distant. When somebody wants out of a relationship they often let their friends in on the secret well ahead of time.
7. The lovin’ is gone! When affection and PDAs (public displays of affection) start to lessen it could mean the fire of love is also going out.
8. S/he starts introducing you to new people as “a friend”.
9. You seem to be fighting a lot about little things.
10. Kissing and telling.
11. You just can’t seem to do ANYTHING right.
12. You avoid any conversation that begins with “we have to talk” or “I don’t know how to say this.”
